Mothers as STEM Champions: Breaking Down Bias at Home

Today, there are more opportunities in STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering, and Mathematics) than ever before. However, many girls still lose interest in STEM as they grow up. Studies show that while girls perform as well as boys when they are young, fewer girls are interested in STEM by high school. This isn’t due to a lack of ability but because of subtle messages, they receive at home and from society.

The Subtle Messages That Hold Girls Back

Biases can sneak into everyday conversations without us realizing it. Here are some common examples:

• “Maybe engineering isn’t for girls.”
• “Math is too hard.”
• “Do something more imaginative.”

Even small things, like preferring certain toys or not showing girls inspiring STEM role models can
suggest that STEM isn’t for them. These small messages add up, leading to a 50% drop in interest in
STEM from elementary to high school (Microsoft Research, 2018).

The Gender Gap in STEM: The Numbers

• Only 28% of the world’s STEM workforce is female (UNESCO, 2022).
• Just 19% of technology leadership positions are held by women (McKinsey, 2023).

These facts show that although things have improved since our mothers’ time, there is still a long
way to go.

Why Early Exposure to STEM Matters

Girls naturally love to explore, ask “why,” and develop skills needed for STEM careers. Without early
introduction, these talents may not reach their full potential. Here’s why early exposure to STEM is
crucial:

• STEM is Imaginative: It involves creativity and problem-solving, not just numbers and
  formulas.
• STEM is Hands-On: Activities like coding games, science experiments, and robotics make
  learning engaging and fun.
• STEM is Teamwork: Modern STEM careers rely on teamwork and communication, areas
  where girls often excel.
• STEM Changes Lives: From medicine to climate change, STEM careers can have a positive
  impact.

How Moms Can Support STEM at Home

Moms are the first and most important role models for children. Your words and actions shape your
daughter’s self-perception and potential. Here are ways to support her interest in STEM:

1. Change the Conversation:
Instead of saying math is hard, say:

• “Math is like a puzzle—let’s solve it together!”
• “Science is all about questions; you’re so curious!”

2. Make STEM Fun and Accessible:

• Include hands-on activities, coding puzzles, or robot kits.
• Connect STEM to daily life, like cooking (chemistry) or money management (math).

3. Share Inspiring STEM Stories:

• Watch shows and read books about women scientists, engineers, and inventors.
• Celebrate real-life STEM heroes so she can envision herself in these careers.

4. Offer a Variety of Toys and Tools:

• Mix traditional play with STEM-friendly toys like science kits, LEGO robotics, or coding games.

5. Encourage Curiosity and Resilience:

• Let her try, experiment, and even fail—each mistake is a step toward learning.
• Reward effort and determination more than just correct answers.

6. Share a Message of Inclusivity:

• Tell her STEM is for everyone, including her.
• Encourage her to see the world of science and technology as full of possibilities, regardless of
  gender.

A Message to All Moms

Dear Moms,

You are your daughter’s first and most important role model. Even in today’s world, old ideas can still hold her back. Watch out for thoughts like:

• “Maybe engineering isn’t for girls.”
• “Math is just too hard.”

Remember, these words can unintentionally limit her dreams. Instead, say:

• “Science is creative—let’s explore it together!”
• “Technology is the future, and you’re a part of it!”
• “You’re just as capable in STEM as anyone else.”

Your words can inspire your daughter to embrace STEM with excitement and curiosity. Support her now, and she can change the world tomorrow.

Although some progress has been made over the past one or two generations, the gender gap in STEM fields still persists. To bridge this gap, it’s crucial to introduce girls to STEM at an early age, challenge existing biases, and create a supportive environment. By inspiring and empowering young women, we can nurture the next generation of leaders in STEM.

-Ananya Nelabhotla is a teen tech enthusiast passionate about technology, space exploration and AI. She actively participates in competitions and writes to inspire conversations about the future of technology.